Anonymous asked: When I got my big I was really excited. Our family went for dinner the night of reveal but I haven't heard from her since. I've asked her to do things on several occasions but she always has an excuse. What could I do to get my big to be more sisterly towards me? I feel so out of place because everyone else in my pledge class hangs out with their big and talks about how great it is. I hate missing out on things in the Greek community bc she doesn't guide me like a big should. Any suggestions?
I would talk to your Pledge Sister Educator that you feel your Big isn’t really guiding you or upholding the standards she may have agreed to when deciding she wanted a little. I would also flat out confront your Big and ask her why she hasn’t been around. That’s not fair of her at all.