somethin-is-brewin asked: I'm a brother of my chapter at my campus, just pledged and initiated. When I got my big, I was totally stoked because we had the same interests in culture and being the best of friends with everyone. But it always feels like I'm the adopted little of many of the older brothers, which many have admitted to me. My actual big and I hardly talk anymore, and I never see him around or hang with him. Should I continue to make the effort?
I think you should make an effort. Maybe an invitation to get together and hang out is just what you both need to reignite the relationship. Or maybe, on the other hand, you’ll finally know for sure whether or not you two will be close at all…
I wish you luck and please let me know how things go ok?!
